The only real relationship we will have is with God who is immaterial. All material relationship is only vanity~
I said in my heart, “I have acquired great wisdom, surpassing all who were before me, and my heart has had great experience of wisdom and knowledge.” And I applied my heart to know wisdom and to know madness and folly. I perceived that this also is but a striving after wind.
For in much wisdom is much vexation,
and he who increases knowledge increases sorrow.
Go, eat your bread with joy, and drink your wine with a merry heart, for God has already approved what you do. Let your garments be always white. Let not oil be lacking on your head. I have seen everything that is done under the sun, and behold, all is vanity and a striving after wind.
The end of the matter; all has been heard. Fear God and keep his commandments, for this is the whole duty of man.” ~Ecclesiastes
~Song of Mary~ 